I don’t know about you, but from approximately age 13 to 21, I was incredibly insecure. Actually, I still have moments like that. Frequently. Insecure about my skin, my figure, my photography, you name it. My mom always told me I was beautiful, but you know how that is. “You only say that because you’re my mom and you have to.”

What I didn’t know, or rather, couldn’t grasp, was that I had this incredible intrinsic value, simply because I, Abigail Grace, was uniquely made. This crippling insecurity bled into every area of my life. Forming and keeping friendships, dating guys I shouldn’t have just because I craved the attention and approval, everything. It wasn’t until I really started walking with Jesus (and took a break from dating) that I began to feel worth people’s time.

The point of this story is that I KNOW how it feels to starve for attention, to crave approval, and to rely on others to find your worth. I have this passion to work with young women to help them find a healthier place than I was in during middle school, high school and most of college. To some it may seem superfluous, but I think great photography can work wonders for a girl’s confidence. When I see a good photo of myself, it’s easier for me to believe in the value I know I hold.

This past Sunday, I got together with the high school and college girls from our church to take them out for a day of playing in front of the camera. I just asked that they wear something that makes them feel GOOD. From the smiles and gorgeous smeyezing I’ve been poring over for the past few day, I think it worked.

Catie, Alexa, Kate, Bethany, Emmi, Kristen, Gabrielle, Alyssa, Jackie, Natalie, Jessica, Victoria, Ashley, Brittney, Laura and Meagan- you girls are so beautiful. Thank you so much for allowing me to drag you around for an evening, and if even one of you feels a bit more confident in your identity in Christ, we accomplished something. I love you all!

Gabrielle? You need to go model for Vogue. Pronto.

I am so jealous of Kristen’s red locks, and how the sun makes them glow!

Emmi, you light up my life. No joke!

Alyssa- the epitome of adorable.

Brittney- incredible fashion sense and killer shoes (you’ll see them later). Victoria is so… elegant. And classic.

Ashley I LOVE your enthusiasm! And Jessica- you remind me of my crazy self when I was 14 🙂

Natalie and Jackie! Some of the most fun sisters I’ve met so far. I’m pretty jealous of their running skills.

Alexa, you are nothing short of charming. And Catie- you have gorgeous blue eyes! (check out your photo down towards the end)

Sister love!

Ahem. Bethany and Kate? You. are. beautiful.

Laura- I really like listening to you. I feel like I could learn a lot from you. And Maegan? Gorgeous smile. And a contagious laugh!

In case you’re wondering, they were playing Concentration. With names. I suggested Barrabas- I think thats when it fell apart.

I LOVE these two images!!

I realize the below-right image is the only one in B&W, but it just HAD to be! Alexa, you look like you belong in 1940. I love it!

I learned that Bethany is a proficient juggler. Also, that when Alyssa attacks her with lipstick, she doesn’t respond well.

 

Didn’t I tell you? Beautiful.

Happy Friday!